Almost every owner of an older dog meets this decision, usually phrased as a worry about her not waking up. It is a reasonable worry and it deserves a better answer than reassurance.
Age is not the risk factor people think it is
Veterinary guidance on anesthesia in older patients is consistent that chronological age is not itself a contraindication. What matters is organ function, cardiovascular status, concurrent disease and how the anesthetic is planned and monitored.

A healthy thirteen year old with good bloodwork may be a lower risk than a five year old with an undiagnosed heart murmur. That is why the pre operative assessment is the part to ask about, rather than the birthday.
The cost of doing nothing is not zero
This is the half of the decision that gets left out. Periodontal disease is painful, and dogs are extraordinarily good at hiding oral pain: they keep eating, because the alternative is not eating. Owners very often report afterwards that the dog became brighter and more active in a way they had not expected, which tells you what the previous state was.

Advanced dental disease can also progress to loose teeth, abscesses and bone involvement, and treating it later means a longer procedure on an older dog. Waiting is a decision with its own risk curve, and it goes the wrong way.
What to ask
- What pre operative testing do you recommend for her specifically, and what would change your plan?
- Who monitors her during the anesthetic, and what is monitored?
- Is she on intravenous fluids and actively warmed throughout?
- How is her pain managed during and after?
- Are dental radiographs included? A great deal of disease is below the gumline and invisible without them.
- What is your plan if you find more than expected once she is under?
- What does recovery look like at home, and what should send me back to you?
- If we do not do this, what happens over the next year?
That last question is the one that reframes the decision, and most people never ask it.
On anesthesia free dentistry
Scaling visible tooth surfaces without anesthesia does not clean below the gumline, which is where periodontal disease is, and cannot include radiographs. It produces teeth that look better while the disease continues. Veterinary dental organizations advise against it, and a cosmetic improvement in an older dog with real disease is not a kindness.
Ask how risk will be reduced, not whether risk is zero
No anesthetic procedure is risk free. A useful plan explains preoperative findings, monitoring, airway management, pain control, recovery and what would make the team postpone or change the procedure. The question is whether safeguards and expected benefit make sense for this individual dog.
Clarify what the dental procedure can actually accomplish
Ask whether dental imaging is planned, which teeth may need treatment and how findings will be discussed if the extent is greater than expected. Cleaning visible tooth surfaces is not the same as evaluating disease below the gumline. A clear scope makes the benefit side of the decision easier to understand.
If the answer is genuinely no
Sometimes it is, and that is a legitimate decision made with a veterinarian rather than a failure. If a dog's other conditions make the risk unacceptable, ask what pain management is appropriate instead, and how you will know if her mouth becomes the thing limiting her quality of life.
